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Sri Lankans Wishing To Marry Foreigners Now REQUIRE Government Approval!

by Anura Guruge
on January 6, 2022

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WOW! That is scary. Just sounds bad & wrong. If you know you history three regimes that had a similar requirement immediately come to kind: Nazi Germany, apartheid-era South Africa and, of course, pre-1960 United States! But, that is NOT an excuse.

Not exactly sure the exact extent or enforceability of this new law. Appears that it ONLY applies to Sri Lankans who want to marry a foreigner on Sri Lankan soil. If they are getting married abroad it would not appear to apply. But, does that mean that that marriage is NOT VALID in Sri Lanka? That got me thinking about the whole issue of the validity of marriages across countries. I had always kind of assumed that it was a universal norm — that each & every country accepted the validity of a marriage performed in another country. If anybody should know or care you would think it would be I. [I am not going to muddy the waters by talking about by marriage status when I came to the U.S., in 1985, from the U.K. I was legally married at the time. And I am married in the U.S. though I am not a U.S. citizen. Is my U.S. marriage recognized in the U.K. I think so. Is it recognized in Sri Lanka? Kind of moot because I am NOT Sri Lankan.]

Interesting. But scary. I was shocked when I saw the news.

As I just said, I am NOT a Sri Lankan. I renounced my Sri Lankan citizenship in 1983. That was 39 years ago. Dual citizenship was not permitted in those days, & I would NOT have wanted dual citizenship anyway.

Well another blot against the reputation of a country that has the distinction of being the FIRST to democratically elect a female head of state.

Always Cracks Me Up When (Supposedly) Celibate Popes Set Out To Give Advice To Us Married Folk.

by Anura Guruge
on December 27, 2021


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Yes, they claim that it is one of their many prerogatives.

ASSUMING (& that is a BIG ask in the case of some popes, even some in the last 90 years) that they have been serious about celibacy how can they really think that they know enough to tell us what marriage is all about? PLEASE.

Talk about ‘book learning’ or worse.

Three words: ‘please’, ‘thanks’ & ‘sorry’?

And sex outside marriage is not such a BIG deal. SMILE. [I am NOT one to speak here.]

So, when your wife finds out that you having been having sex with someone other than her (& hopefully it was a female) what are you supposed to do. Tell her: ‘I am SORRY. PLEASE dismiss it. THANKS. That is it. Those magical three words. I wonder if that would really work.

Please, Francis

Why don’t you address something that YOU must have more hands on experience with. Clerical sexual abuse.

Happy New Year.